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Continue to ChatUnderstanding is often a prelude to forgiveness, but they are not the same, and we often forgive what we cannot understand (seeing nothing else to do) and understand what we cannot pardon. - Mary McCarthy from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/understanding-is-often-a-prelude-to-forgiveness-but-they-are-not-the-same-and-we-often-forgive-what-we-cannot