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Continue to ChatMaybe he didn’t really encourage me to do things, but he didn’t prevent me from doing them either. But after a while, I didn’t do things because I didn’t want him to think different about me. But the thing is, I wasn’t being honest. So, why would I care whether or not he loved me when he didn’t really even know me? - Stephen Chbosky from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/maybe-he-didn-t-really-encourage-me-to-do-things-but-he-didn-t-prevent-me-from-doing-them-either-but-after-a