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Continue to ChatMarriage is like a barbecue. When you light a barbecue, it's very exciting to see the flames. That's lovely, but you have to wait until the flames have died down. Everything that you want from a barbecue happens on the hot embers. You can't cook on those flames. - Howard Jacobson from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/marriage-is-like-a-barbecue-when-you-light-a-barbecue-it-s-very-exciting-to-see-the-flames-that-s-lovely-but