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Continue to ChatIt's intrusive for grandparents to think they're in charge. It's manipulative. Also, it's self-destructive, since if the parents have to resist you, you won't get your mitts on the kid as often. - Anne Lamott from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/it-s-intrusive-for-grandparents-to-think-they-re-in-charge-it-s-manipulative-also-it-s-self-destructive-since