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Continue to ChatIf you are married and you go off and have an affair with someone, if you are a husband who does that, it may potentially hurt your wife enormously. But it seems to me likely also to compromise your marriage. That seems to me to be a harm. - Andrew Solomon from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/if-you-are-married-and-you-go-off-and-have-an-affair-with-someone-if-you-are-a-husband-who-does-that-it-may