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Continue to ChatI rebel at the notion that I can't be part of other groups, that I can't construct identities through elective affinity, that race must be the most important thing about me. Is that what I want on my gravestone: Here lies an African American? - Henry Louis Gates from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/i-rebel-at-the-notion-that-i-can-t-be-part-of-other-groups-that-i-can-t-construct-identities-through-elective