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Continue to ChatI know as an aunt, you fall into the trap of turning to your niece and saying, 'you look beautiful' - because of course all children do look beautiful - but if the message they get is that is what's important and that is what gets praise, then that's not necessarily the most positive message you want them to hear. - Jo Swinson from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/i-know-as-an-aunt-you-fall-into-the-trap-of-turning-to-your-niece-and-saying-you-look-beautiful-because-of