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Continue to ChatAnd for me, it is a choice. I understand that for many people its not, but for me its a choice, and you dont get to define my gayness for me. A certain section of our community is very concerned that it not be seen as a choice, because if its a choice, then we could opt out. I say it doesnt matter if we flew here or we swam here, it matters that we are here and we are one group and let us stop trying to make a litmus test for who is considered gay and who is not. - Cynthia Nixon from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/and-for-me-it-is-a-choice-i-understand-that-for-many-people-its-not-but-for-me-its-a-choice-and-you-dont-get