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Continue to ChatActing politely in front of someone black and/or gay and then making horrible claims about their intelligence or worth as human beings after they leave the room is not kindness - it's hypocrisy. - Mallory Ortberg from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/acting-politely-in-front-of-someone-black-and-or-gay-and-then-making-horrible-claims-about-their-intelligence